This week, I wanted to dive into a topic that is as relatable as it is frustrating: dealing with disappointment when our leaders don’t quite live up to our expectations. Whether in the corporate world, a community organisation, a school or a club, chances are you have experienced that sinking feeling when the people in … Read more
This week, I wanted to delve into what conflict can teach us about ourselves as leaders, exploring how challenges unveil our character, decision-making capabilities, and resilience. In the dynamic landscape of organisational life, conflicts are not just inevitable obstacles to be overcome. They are empowering opportunities that serve a positive and powerful purpose: they are … Read more
For my first post for 2024, I thought I would write about something that I have been reflecting on for quite some time and is something I think some of us struggle with more than others. Something that might seem counterintuitive in a world that often celebrates the word “yes” and the “hustle” like it … Read more
There is much chatter in leadership discussion circles about legacy, particularly the legacy a leader may leave once they depart an organisation or role. And it seems that “What’s the legacy you want to leave?” is on many interviewers’ lists of questions (whether it is a good question or not is debatable). Leaving a legacy … Read more
Growing up, the etiquette rulebook in many societies often said, “Don’t dive into sex, politics, or religion, especially at work or with new acquaintances.” The rationale is clear: these topics can be contentious and uncomfortable. Yet, as a friend wisely advised, even once familiarity is established, discussions must be approached with a learning mindset rather … Read more
Life is an intricate journey sometimes filled with peaks of joy and valleys of despair. During the lows of personal crises and identity struggles, we often question who we are and where we are headed. In these moments, self-discovery becomes a crucial compass, guiding us through the storm towards a more authentic and fulfilled existence. … Read more
Humanity is a mosaic of emotions, a symphony of experiences that span the spectrum from joy to sorrow, love to hate, and everything in between. Many scientists have tried to boil human emotions down to seven or eight universal emotional expressions, with some suggesting that humans experience 17 million combinations of emotions in a lifetime. … Read more
In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, with the relentless pursuit of goals and the constant demands of leadership, fatigue can stealthily become an unwelcome companion. As we head into the last vestiges of this year, perhaps we are burdened and tired by what is happening both at the macro level (Gaza, inflation, … Read more
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s assertion, “In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends,” is a poignant reminder of the power of friendship and the responsibility it entails. I thought I had understood those words, but in recent weeks, I have realised that I had … Read more
Last week, a chance encounter with a stranger led to a conversation about the notion that “one person can’t make a difference.” It’s a sentiment I have encountered multiple times throughout my career in information technology, in my first managerial role, when previous employers hesitated to take critical business steps, or whenever I voiced concerns … Read more